Handcuffs are the simplest and easiest way to restrain your partner and for your peace of mind all our handcuffs come with easy release triggers. Choose from wrist cuffs or ankle cuffs, hard or soft, fabric or traditional metal. For those looking for a little more adventure, why not try the full body bed restraints? Or, for those of you looking for instant fun or something a little more creative, check out our range of bondage ropes and bondage tapes.
If you are keen to try bondage with your partner, it is important to have a conversation about it first. Turning up in the bedroom with ropes and a whip could be more frightening than sexual for your partner! Introduce the subject gently into conversation. Ask your partner how they would feel about wearing a blindfold during sex or if they have any fantasies they would like to share. Ask them if they have they ever tried role play. At all times, respect how your partner feels. Bondage is not everyone’s cup of tea but chatting and being honest with each other will help you discover what you are both comfortable with and what can be introduced into the bedroom.
If you are a newbie in the wondrous world of bondage, keep things simple! A blindfold and handcuffs are perfect for your first play session – bringing heightened senses and an atmosphere of anticipation.
Avoid ropes initially as they can become troublesome for those of us less experienced in bondage or Shibari. A great alternative is bondage tape as it only sticks to itself – strong enough to give the feeling of being bound, yet easily removable when required. Velcro fastenings are also ideal for those tentatively dipping a first toe into bondage and BDSM play.
As with any other form of bondage, you should establish a safe word before you begin. Safe words prevent any confusion in the heat of role play, providing reassurance that play can be stopped if one of you becomes uncomfortable.
Make a promise that when the safe word is used play stops immediately.
Never leave a bound person alone – safety has to be the first priority.
Aftercare is crucial. Whilst this type of play is highly arousing and exciting, afterwards the submissive partner can experience negative feelings. Take time to reassure your partner of your love and respect. Lots of comforting hugs will help you both to ensure only positive vibes remain!