A Beginners Guide To Anal Toys

A Beginners Guide to Anal Sex Toys

A black silicone butt plug with ring pull.

Keen to try anal sex toys? Curious to discover backdoor bliss? Not really sure where to start? Have no fear. Here at passionbugs we’ve created this handy beginners guide to anal sex toys. From butt plugs and beads to everything in between, we will help you navigate your way through the adventurous world of anal play.

Show your bum some serious fun with a collection of anal sex toys perfect for you and your booty.


Best Anal Sex Toys for Beginners

If you are just starting out then go slimline and small. The anal muscles need to be trained in order to accommodate toys. Going too big too soon is a big no no. Small butt plugs and anal beads are ideal for newbies.

Anal Beads

Me You Us Classic Anal Beads

Anal beads provide pleasure through movement.

Lots of balls all joined together along a cord. Often with a loop or handle at the end for easy retrieval. Some beads may have their balls all the same size, whilst others have beads of increasing sizes. Wearing them during foreplay, masturbation and intercourse will provide arousing stimulation helping you to achieve stronger orgasms.

Anal beads are designed to stimulate your nerves upon entry and again upon removal. So try pulling them out just as you climax. Trust us….this is one hell of a thrill!

Me You Us Classic Anal Beads

  • 5 different sized balls to tantalise your booty effortlessly.
  • Tapered for ease of insertion and absolute comfort.
  • A wide T-Bar prevents unwanted travel and ease of control.
  • Flexible and pliable, they hit the right spot each and every time.
  • Make sure to add a good helping of water-based anal lube.

Butt Plugs

Loving Joy Silicone Anal Plug Small

Butt plugs are instantly recognisable by their flared base. This stops the toy from wandering too far inside and keeping you safe during play.

These toys were once seen as the exclusive property of gay men, but not anymore.

Inside of every bottom there are thousands thrilling nerve endings just waiting to be tantalised and teased. Butt plugs are shaped to reach this untapped pleasure zone effortlessly. Regardless of gender, sexual preferences or identity, butt plugs will enhance any solo play, oral play, foreplay and even sexual intercourse.

Loving Joy Silicone Anal Plug Small

  • A petite butt plug perfect for first time players.
  • The flexible-yet-firm design with rounded tip makes for pleasurable insertion and wear.
  • A flared based prevents unwanted travel and extra perineum stimulation.
  • Use for fabulous foreplay, and sensational solo sessions for added excitement.

Best Anal Sex Toys for Temperature Play

When we inject hot and cold toys into our play we get some very unique sensations. Cold toys will cause muscles to contract, providing an intense feeling which can result in shudders of pleasure. Hot toys make blood vessels dilate. This in turn increases blood flow into anus taking sensations up yet another sensual level.

Anal toys made from glass and metal are perfect for temperature play as they can be easily heated up in a hot bowl or water and even the microwave. Or they can be cooled down in cold water or the fridge.

Precious Metals Smooth Silver Anal Butt Plug Medium Showing Jewel

Precious Metals Smooth Silver Anal Butt Plug

  • A beautifully crafted, jewelled metal butt plug to make you sparkle both inside and out.
  • Super smooth for easy insertion and weighty for total satisfaction.
  • Suitable for temperature play.
  • Compatible with all lubes.
  • Comes with a drawstring bag so you get complete discretion and easy storage.
Pipedream Icicles No. 76 Red Glass Rose Butt Plug 3 Inch

Pipedream Icicles No. 76 Red Glass Rose Butt Plug

  • Sleek, stylish and super smooth for easy insertion and maximum comfort.
  • For those who demand a truly indulgent experience.
  • Heat it up or cool it down to discover another dimension of excitement.
  • Non-porous, body-safe and hypoallergenic.
  • Glass sex toys can last a lifetime and are fully recyclable.

Best Anal Toys for First Time Pegging

The term “pegging” originally referred to the sexual act whereby a woman uses a strap on dildo to penetrate a man via his butt.

But things have moved on in this wonderous world of sex and sex toys. Now the term “pegging” is used widely to refer to anal sex using a strap on. This can be between partners of all genders, sexuality and identity. Regardless of what you might be packing downstairs, pegging is hot right now.

This type of strap on sex allows you to explore different areas of your partner’s body, that have up to now been out of reach. Being able to reach all those juicy booty nerve endings can provide a stronger, longer lasting and more powerful orgasm. Pegging provides the opportunity to experiment with power play and role reversal – something that is sure to heat things up in the bedroom.

Pegged Pegging Dildo with Harness Black Main

Strap U Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit with 5 Inch Pegging Dildo

  • Adjustable strap on harness with slim 5 inch silicone dildo.
  • Dildo is curved to provide subtle stimulation to the prostate or g-spot.
  • Pocket in harness means you can add a bullet vibe and really turn up the thrills.
  • Non intimidating for curious couples wanting to explore pegging play.
  • Dildo is fully removable for play with or without the harness.

Best Anal Toys to Get you Buzzing

Vibrators are not just for vaginas. After all, why should your butt miss out? Anal vibrators will get the good vibes flowing in no time.

Designed specifically for venturing into the rectum, these vibrators are shaped to bend and fit the internal contours of your body.

Delivering intense internal stimulation, anal vibrators seek out the nerve-rich zone inside the booty to get you feeling fantastic. Anal vibrators come in a variety of toys including vibrating prostate massagers, anal dildos, butt plugs and anal beads.

Rocks-Off Ass-Berries Raspberry 7 Speed Vibrating Butt Plug Being Held

Rocks Off 7 Function Ass Berries Vibrating Butt Plug

  • Ass-Berries provide juicy fun for your bum!
  • 7 functions – 3 constant speeds and 4 vibration patterns offer you total fulfilment.
  • 100% waterproof so you can enjoy wet & wild erotic adventures.
  • Tapered for easy insertion and a great size for beginners.
  • The bullet vibrator is removable so you can enjoy the shape while stimulating other erogenous zones.

Best Anal Sex Toys for Prostate Pleasure

If you are looking for the ultimate P-Spot hit, then you need a prostate massager, otherwise known as a prostate vibrator. Prostate vibrators are anal sex toys that use vibration to help stimulate the prostate. They are usually shaped with an angled shaft that can reach the holy grail of the p-spot with ease.

You can locate the P-Spot by inserting a well lubed finger into your bottom. It’s situated just below the bladder and in front of the rectum. It is about the size of a walnut and it is responsible for the production of semen. Prostate orgasms will feel very different indeed to the orgasm felt by ejaculation. These orgasms are likely to be more powerful and prolonged enabling you to enjoy the moment for longer.

Rocks Off Quest Prostate Bullet

Rocks Off Quest Prostate Bullet

  • Slim and unintimidating yet also powerful.
  • 10 vibration and pulsation settings.
  • Contoured design to reach the sweet P-Spot effortlessly.
  • Fully waterproof.
  • Battery included so you can simply unwrap and enjoy.

Best for Trying a Little Bit of Everything

The range of anal options are pretty much endless. If you are struggling to decide which toy to plump for, it may be easier to go with a sex toy kit. This way you get a selection of appropriate toys that give you lots of different experiences. Plus buying a bundle will always save you money.

We recommend the Booty Bundle.

Booty Bundle Anal Sex Toy Kit All Products Together

Enjoy bootylicious bum fun with this collection of anal toys. Everything you need to begin your anal adventures. A luxurious silicone butt plug combines with anal beads for backdoor pleasure you can’t resist. Then take things up a level with added vibrations. An absolute must have for fans of anal play.

In this sex toy kit: 

  • Silicone Butt Plug 
  • Anal Bead 
  • Vibrating Anal Beads 
  • Anal Douche 

Anal Lube

Unlike the vagina, the butt does not self-lubricate. The muscles inside the anus are highly resistant and incredibly strong. They will not yield to toys without encouragement and this is why lube is an absolute must.

Going in dry is going be painful. It could cause friction, burns and even tearing of the delicate muscles and nerve endings.

Whilst a water-based lube will get the job done, it is better to invest in a thick gloopy anal lube. Anal lubes are made to a much thicker formula helping to protect your booty. Using an anal lube will not only keep you from harm, it will ensure play is comfortable and it will heighten the sensations ensuring you squeeze every last drop of pleasure from your toys.

passionbugs bestselling anal lube

Loving Joy Anal Lube 250ml

Loving Joy Water-Based Anal Lubricant 250ml
  • Pump up the pleasure with this sensational multi-purpose lube.
  • Sex and condom safe.
  • Hypoallergenic.
  • Vegan friendly.
  • Suitable for use with all your favourite sex toys.

Top Tips for Beginners

Anal sex can be an opening to so many new sensations and pleasures. Anal sex toys allow us to tap into pleasure zones usually kept well out of reach. Just remember to start small. Don’t rush, and be realistic with your expectations.

Anal muscles are strong and powerful meaning they need to be encouraged gently, and trained to relax. Both anal play and anal sex shouldn’t be painful or uncomfortable. Start with suitable beginner’s toys and use plenty of anal lube.

What to learn more about anal play? The passionbugs range of guides and blogs are here to help. Discover How to Use a Butt Plug and How to Use an Anal Dildo.

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