Ok boys, we know sex can be amazing, but let’s be honest, it can also get a little samey. We’ve all fallen into the trap of repeating the same moves, those trusted favourites that get the job done. But if you’re looking to take your bedroom game up a level, this quick guide is here to show you the best sex positions for men that can turn good sex, into mind blowing sex. And best of all, you don’t need to be a contortionist or athlete to master them!
Table of Contents
- Top 5 Must-Try Sex Positions for Men
- How to Introduce Toys for Extra Fun
- Elevate Pleasure: Mastering the Basics
- Role of Communication in the Bedroom
- Exploring New Angles and Perspectives
- Boosting Confidence with the Right Moves
- Ready to Experiment? Your Next Steps
Top 5 Must-Try Sex Positions for Men
Right Mr Missionary, we’re looking at you, when we share the following incredible best sex positions for men. Say goodbye to Mr Predictable because it’s time for something new.
- Cowgirl (But Make It Reverse). Because you’re sitting down, you can relax and simply enjoy the ride. You get a full view of your girl, she’s in control, and you get easy access to those hips for guiding her along.
- Standing Doggy. Nothing says “manly man” like grabbing her round the waist and pressing her against the wall. It’s primal, it’s passionate, and it gets bonus points for spontaneity but it can be an effort of those legs and thighs so why not take it up a gear and use a sex swing? These sex position enhancers take the pressure of any joints and ensure you can hold her for as long as you like without any straining muscles or the risk of putting your back out.
- The Seated Thrust. Another great one, if you want maximum fun with very little manual work. Sit on the edge of the bed or a sturdy chair, and invite her to straddle you. You get maximum control over angle and depth, whilst being able to maintain eye contact which increases intimacy.
- The Lazy Sunday. This is basically a more intense version of spooning. Lie on your side, spoon your partner, and take them from behind. It’s low-effort but deeply satisfying and great for those more romantic and sensual moments.
- Flatiron. This one is great if you like intense sex. Your partner lies face down, legs together, with you on top. Be sure to pop them on something soft and comfy. Nobody wants to be on a cold, hard floor! The tightness and depths you can reach in this position are insane.
Practice moving between positions during make out sessions. That way, when it’s game time, you’ll be a seamless, sexy machine.
How to Introduce Toys for Extra Fun
Sex toys can be a man’s greatest wingman in the bedroom. They elevate sensations, introduce new thrills and do things to our bodies that isn’t possible by human touch alone. Introducing them into sex is a fantastic way to spice things up injecting both excitement and fun.
If you’ve not used toys with a partner before it’s best to talk about it before whipping out a giant black dildo mid-session! Start small with maybe a bullet vibrator or cock ring. Conversation is easy if you are sensitive and simple with an opening line of “Hey, I was thinking it might be fun to try this together.”
Each of the above positions can be enhanced with sex toys. Let’s explore some of the most popular couples toys for sexual intercourse.
Couples Cock Rings
Couple cock rings have the power to transform your cock into a sex machine and turn you into the stud every woman craves. Using a couples vibrating cock ring can enhance pleasure for both partners by adding consistent clitoral stimulation during penetration and intensifying her orgasms. At the same time, these rings help you to maintain a firmer erection and last that little bit longer. Cock rings can be worn whilst doing any sexual position.
Bestselling Cock Ring for Couples
The Happy Rabbit rechargeable rabbit cock ring is just the thing to enhance sex no matter what position you find yourself in. The bunny ears will hit her clit for sustained stimulation whilst 3 speeds and 9 patterns of vibration provide a variety of saucy options to explore together. Add to this its ability to keep you harder for longer and you’ll be struggling to find a reason not to get one. USB rechargeable for battery free fun and waterproof for wet and wild adventures, this non-intimidating ring is great for newbies and pros alike.
Looking for something more affordable? No problem, the Fifty Shades of Grey Yours and Mine ring vibrates, has a clitoral pad for hitting her essential sweet spot and its waterproof. At almost half the price it gets the job done in style and is perfect for those wanting to try before investing more heavily.
Couples Vibrators
Couples vibrators are a game-changer for the bedroom with any sexual position. Worn during intercourse they provide powerful vibrations to tease and please you both and because the vibe is worn inside the vagina, it makes her feel tighter than ever. These vibrators are a win-win that takes your performance from solid to legendary.
Couples Vibrators for Shared Thrills
The Satisfyer Double Classic vibrator is a luxurious couples vibe designed to be worn during sex. It is the perfect toy to indulge in mind-blowing vibrations, providing an intense experience for you both to share. Its unique design is intended for vaginal and simultaneous clitoral use during intercourse.
Or you could take things further with the Satisfyer Double Fun vibrator. Both remote control and app control this vibrator lets you set the pace of play with customisable vibration patterns, create your own patterns and it even syncs to your playlist! Closing the space in her vagina, sex will instantly feel more intense whilst the powerful dual motors provide deep rumbling thrills to ensure you both reach orgasmic heights.
Anal Beads
If you’re chosen sex position isn’t one that involves her backdoors, consider popping in some anal beads. They’ll add another dimension of stimulation for her and if you pull out just at the point of complex, she will enjoy an orgasm guaranteed to make her toes curl. Plus there’s nothing stopping you wearing some beads too – you’re p-spot will love you for it.
Anal Beads for Backdoor Bonding
To vibrate or not to vibrate that is the question? If you want the thrill of vibrations we recommend the Moressa Ronie remote controlled vibrating anal beads. 7 powerful vibration modes provide varied sensations, while the flexible shaft bends to fit your body perfectly. Being remote controlled, you can enjoy effortless control and fumble free fun.
If you want all the fullness and satisfaction of beads without the vibrations, give the Loving Joy anal beads a go. Uncomplicated, affordable and easy to insert, these beads focus on stimulating every last nerve ending in the bootie for maximum pleasure.
Elevate Pleasure: Mastering the Basics
Before you start flinging yourselves off the wardrobes or swinging from the chandeliers, let’s pause and take a moment. Pleasure — for you and your partner — is about rhythm, pressure, and connection. It’s more about consistent and steady motions, not frantic jackhammering. Our bodies respond more to rhymical movements, getting more aroused and more turned on. Setting a pattern that starts slow and steady and builds up to a faster pace will build sexual tension and ensure a stronger, more rewarding climax.
Pro tip: Sex lube is a quick easy win for any sexual position. It reduces friction, stops any awkward snagging and it makes it easier for the body to reach orgasm.
Role of Communication in the Bedroom
If you want sex to be great, you’ve got to learn to talk to each other. Communication is the secret sauce of great sex. Want to know if she’s loving it? Simply ask her. Want to switch things up? Tell her. Neither of you are mind readers so you need to dirty talk and check-in with each other. Even goofy laughter is important. Nobody is going to nail new moves first time (and if you do good on you!) Part of making sex less “awkward porno” and more “award-winning private performance” is about talking, sharing and most importantly being honest with each other.
Pro tip: Set up a “traffic light” system: Green means go harder, yellow means slow down, red means stop. It’s simple but effective.
Exploring New Angles and Perspectives
So, you’ve mastered a new position. But have you explored all the options? Trying a new angel is going to seriously mix things up again. Here’s our top tips for getting the most from your new favourite sex positions:
- Tilt her hips upwards using a pillow under her lower back for deeper penetration.
- Try lifting one leg onto your shoulder in missionary for even more impact.
- Sideways straddles? Yes please!
- Experiment with how deep you thrust, switch things around from deep to short to keep things exciting.
Sex position enhancers such as sex cushions and sex furniture can help you unlock the best sex positions for men, making it easier to try moves you never thought were possible — with way less effort and a whole lot more fun. Don’t be afraid to get experimental — sometimes the weirdest-feeling setups turn into the “oh-my-god-do-that-again” moments.
Boosting Confidence with the Right Moves
Confidence in bed is sexy – fact! So don’t worry if you don’t know every move in the isn’t Kama Sutra. Do what you do with confidence and own it. Making eye contact talking and listening to her body with show her you mean business.
Pro Tip: Slow everything down. It shows her you are in control. Slower thrusts feel more intense — and make you look like a total sex god who knows exactly what he’s doing. Or to put it another way… fake it, till you make it.
Ready to Experiment? Your Next Steps
You’ve got the moves, you’ve got the know-how so you should be feeling that “hell yes, let’s spice it up” energy. Before you step forth with all the confidence of a sex god, let’s summarise those all-important tips and tricks to ensure you rock everyone of the best sex positions for men.
- Pick one new position and give it a go.
- Talk about it with your partner in a fun, low-pressure way.
- Focus on pleasure, not performance. Nobody is judging you.
- It’s ok if things don’t go smoothly. Laugh it off, share a giggle, make it fun.
- Nailed that new move? Great, celebrate it, high five it and pick another.
- Make every move a confident move (whether you feel it or not!)
Final Word: Being a Casanova between the sheets isn’t about wild acrobatics, fireworks and marathons. It’s far more important to make a connection, communicate, and make the whole experience a playful adventure.
