Ready to discover a world where the good vibes never stop, but not sure which vibrator to go for? Don’t worry! In this guide, the best vibrators for beginners, this blog will help you make an informed choice. We’ll highlight those features to be on the lookout for, we’ll share how to maintain vibrators and we promise to give you all the top tips for using a vibrator for the first time. Choosing a vibrator is a thrilling step, and we’re here to guide you every buzz of the way!
Table of Contents
- Why Choose Your First Vibrator Carefully?
- Key Features to Look for in Beginner Vibrators
- Top 5 Best Vibrators for Beginners
- How to Use Your First Vibrator: Tips for Beginners
- Maintaining and Cleaning Your Vibrator
- Common Mistakes to Avoid as a Beginner
- Exploring Further: When to Upgrade Your Vibrator
Why Choose Your First Vibrator Carefully?
Choosing your first vibrator carefully is super important. This first vibrator is going to set the tone for your self-discovery, so choose wisely.
Getting it right will enable you to explore vibrators with confidence whilst being comfortable. The best beginner vibrators will be well suited to your own needs and preferences instantly making them attractive and inviting. Getting it wrong, could see you never picking up a vibrator again for fear of being frustrated or un-fulfilled.
By selecting a beginner-friendly vibe, you’re creating a positive and empowering experience that can open the door to exciting and erotic exploration.
Key Features to Look for in Beginner Vibrators
The best vibrators for beginners are those that are simple, effective, and exciting without being overwhelming. Like all things in life, new skills take time and practice, and self-pleasure is no different. Remember, you don’t need the most expensive, high-tech model to get started. Some of the simplest designs will still deliver amazing results.
Here are the key features we recommend for the best beginner vibrators:
| Non-Intimidating Design | Your first vibrator shouldn’t be something that scares you. It needs to look and feel, friendly and inviting. Straightforward shapes with easy to use controls are ideal for a stress-free experience. |
| Compact Size | Smaller vibrators are great for beginners as they are typically easier to handle. |
| One Touch Control | Simple, user friendly control is key to being able to use your vibrator confidently. Selecting a vibrator with one touch control or a dial or twist control will prevent frustrating fumbling during play. |
| Quiet Vibrations | A quiet vibrator may help you to relax. Less noise equals less distractions so you can enjoy the sensations. A quiet vibrator also offers discretion meaning you are naturally less self-conscious. |
| Affordable Price Tag | It doesn’t make sense to spend lots of hard earned cash on something you’re not yet sure you like. Purchasing a cheaper vibrator will ensure you can try out vibrator play before investing more heavily. |
Top 5 Best Vibrators for Beginners
Not yet sure which vibrator to plump for? Here are a few of our best vibrators for beginners to give you some inspiration.
Loving Joy Finger Vibrator
The Loving Joy finger vibrator is a great affordable first time choice as it really is super easy to use. Simply pop the stretchy strap onto your finger, push the button to get the vibrations going and place wherever you choose. As an extension of your hand, this vibe provides precise pleasure instantly. No fuss, no frill, just plenty of fun. Batteries are included so you just need to unwrap and enjoy. Plus being non-gender specific, anybody can indulge!
Me You Us Blossom 10 Function Bullet Vibrator
A vibrant pink bullet vibrator, the Me You Us Blossom that ticks all the right boxes for newbies. 10 sensational vibration patterns are easily accessed via the one touch button control. Being waterproof you can enjoy this bullet anywhere you choose and because its lightweight, handling is a breeze. Batteries are included so all you need to do is add a generous helping of lube and away you go!
Rocks Off Chaiamo 10 Function Rechargeable Bullet Vibrator
Classy, elegant and silky smooth, the Rocks Off Chaiamo combines luxury and comfort with simplicity. With 10 powerful vibration and pulsation settings, this vibe is serious about making you orgasm in style. But it’s simple one touch button makes setting the pace easy.
Suitable for both external and internal vaginal pleasure, this vibrator is versatile for solo play and couples play. And being rechargeable there’s no need to worry about batteries. Plus its waterproof so you can enjoy yourself in the shower or the bath.
ROMP Beat Rechargeable Textured Classic Vibrator
Get down and dirty with the ROMP Beat vibrator. Fully loaded, this bad boy has 6 sexy speed settings plus 4 rhythmical patterns, all at the touch of one simple button on the base. The tapered tip makes for easy insertion (if you wish to venture internally) whilst the textured shaft provides added stimulation. 100% rechargeable and 100% waterproof, this classic vibrator has it all and is sure to delight beginners and pros alike.
Pretty Love Little Cute Rechargeable Mini Stick Massage Wand Vibrator
A luxurious silicone mini massage wand in bright pink. Small and easy to handle, this miniature massage wand is the perfect tool for intimate massages with yourself or your lover. Tease and please the clitoris, nipples, around the anus and the perineum. Fully rechargeable and 100% waterproof the Pretty Love Wand is super easy to control. The one touch wheel provides incremental speed increases with a simple spin. All you need to do is add a generous helping of water based lube before lying back and enjoying yourself.
How to Use Your First Vibrator: Tips for Beginners
If you’ve selected the right vibrator then using it should be trouble free. To use a vibrator for the first time give these simple steps a try:
- Read any instructions.
- Get to know the vibrator by giving it a go ahead of playtime. Experiment with how to hold, manipulate and operate it.
- When you’re ready, apply a little lube to the vibrator and to yourself.
- Explore your body, trying out how the vibe feels on different erogenous zones. Nipples, the clitoris, the perineum and the banjo are all big fans of vibrators.
- Experiment with different angles and pressure. Varying pressure or changing the angle you position the vibrator, will provide a wider range of sensations making play more arousing and exciting.
- Take your time. There is no point in rushing the process. You need time to understand what turns you on, to fully feel these new sensations and to enjoy the moment. Building up to an orgasm slowly will ensure it is fulfilling and long lasting.
Maintaining and Cleaning Your Vibrator
Keeping your vibrator clean and safe are vital if you want it to ensure long-lasting durability. Here’s our quick guide to cleaning a vibrator.
First and foremost check if your vibrator is waterproof. For a waterproof vibrator all you need to do is:
- Rinse the vibrator under warm running water to remove residue
- Rub the vibrator all over with a mild antibacterial soap or spray with a sex toy cleaner
- If your vibrator is textured, be sure to get into all the nooks and crannies
- Rinse again under warm running water until you are confident all debris and cleaning agent is removed
- Set your vibrator aside to air dry on a clean dry cloth
For vibrators that are not waterproof:
- Wipe the vibrator with a clean damp cloth or kitchen paper, to remove any debris
- Spray with sex toy cleaner and leave for 30 seconds
- Using a clean cloth or more kitchen paper, rub the entire vibrator to remove the cleaner and any remaining debris
- Set aside to air dry
Once the vibrator is 100% dry it needs to be stored away until the next playtime. We recommend using proper sex toys storage. Sex toy storage keeps the vibrator safe and clean until you want to use it again. It can prevent accidental damage to the toy and it ensures discretion, keeping your toys out of sight of any prying eyes.
Common Mistakes to Avoid as a Beginner
To be successful with a vibrator there are a couple of common mistakes you will want to avoid.
- The wrong lube. Using a lube that is not compatible with your vibrator could cause damage and seriously reduce its lifespan. If you are unsure about what lube to go for, choose a water based one. This type of sex lube is compatible with everything including all sex toys and condoms.
- Not using lube. Never mind the wrong lube, using no lube at all is just as much a mistake. Lube ensures the friction of vibrations doesn’t cause soreness whilst also helping the body to relax. Lube is great at supporting those intimate body parts to orgasm.
- Not cleaning your vibrator. Failing to clean up properly will only lead to bacteria, making your vibrator unhygienic, smelly and unattractive for play.
- Rushing. Not allowing yourself enough time to enjoy the moment can prevent you from fully experiencing everything a vibrator has to offer. Take your time and explore at your own pace.
- Ignoring your body. Your body knows you best so if something doesn’t feel right, stop. Listening to your body is key to getting the most pleasure, so take a break, reassess and then try again.
Exploring Further: When to Upgrade Your Vibrator
We’re not saying that you will ever need to get rid of your beginner vibrator. It can always be a trusty pleasure tool in the bedroom toybox. But as you become more confident you may to explore new sensations and extra functionalities. Consider upgrading when you feel ready for more powerful vibrations, different textures, or advanced features. Features may include remote control, app control, warming or even suction. Upgrading from a basic vibrator to a more complex model opens up lots of orgasmic opportunities but you need to get the basics right first.
When you are ready to step up come and explore our full range of vibrators online. And if you’re curious to learn more about these vibrant sex toys, you can check out our collection of vibrator guides.
