How To Find The G-Spot

How to Find the G-Spot

A woman pointing to the location of the female G-spot

How to find the G-spot? A frequent question and topic of conversation for many a couple and certainly one we get asked a lot here at passionbugs.

We’ve all heard of it. Some of us know where it is. A few of us may even have found it! But for those of you in need of some direction, let passionbugs give you the complete low down on this holy grail of erogenous zones.

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What Is the G-Spot?

The thing about the G-spot is that it isn’t actually a separate or specific bit of the body. Think about the clitoris and how it isn’t just the pearl shaped bead we can see and feel at the hood of our labia. The G-spot is part of the back room staff for the clitoris and forms part of its larger network.

Did you know that the majority of women can’t orgasm by intercourse alone. So, unlocking the power of this pleasure sweet spot could be the key to knee shaking, bedsheet gripping orgasms.

But how do find something that can’t be pinpointed on a map of the body?


Where Is the G-Spot?

This is the fun bit!

Whilst the G-spot may be in a slightly different area for different individuals, it can generally be located on the anterior wall of the vagina. Put simply, if you lie flat on your back, the anterior wall is the one at the top where the belly button is.

Just like the clitoris, a G-spot will swell and enlarge when aroused. Getting turned on will definitely help to find it more easily. All turned on? Good. Now you can begin…

  1. Relax
  2. Insert one, or two fingers, palm facing upwards and feel along the wall of the vagina, usually a few centimetres inside. You will feel the wall go from very smooth to a little rough and bumpy. A bit like orange peel. You might want to use a little lube to aid insertion and heighten the senses.
  3. Now use a “come here” motion by curling the fingers to stimulate the zone.
  4. Remember you’re not hunting down a specific spot just wherever feels different in a good way.

How to Stimulate the G-Spot

There are several ways to tap into this sensational pleasure zone.

  • Masturbation
  • Foreplay
  • Sexual Intercourse using specific sexual positions
  • Sex toys including vibrators, dildos and love eggs

With all of these methods it’s important to get turned on and warmed up first. So get rid of distractions, turn off your phone, lock the door and put the dog in the kitchen. Light a few candles, put on some music or listen to some ethical porn. Do whatever it takes to get you feeling horny.

When it comes to both masturbation and foreplay it’s important that you and your partner know how to find the g-spot. Whilst fumbling around can be fun, sometimes it can also be frustrating. So, whether you are playing on your own or getting your partner to do the hunting be sure to familiarise yourself with the location first.

Fingering – Apply some lube to the fingers. This can be a standard versatile water based lube or why not mix things up with a Durex tingling or warming lube for extra stimulation?

Don’t forget the clit – Playing with the clit at the same time will also help to arouse the G-spot and reach that elusive blended orgasm.

Be firm but gentle – This particular sexy spot responds better to massage and pressure rather than prodding and thrusting. It also enjoys rumbly vibrations which is where sex toys come in.


Best Sex Toys for G-Spot Stimulation

There a quite a few sex toys that are experts when it comes to finding, teasing and pleasing the spot.

  • G Spot Vibrators
  • G Spot Dildos
  • Love Eggs

G-spot vibrators and dildos are typically shaped with a slight curve meaning they can follow the contours of the vagina wall to land in just the right location. Their large bulbous or flat heads are then perfect for delivery the required stimulation. Many of these sex toys will feature pulsating vibration patterns. These pulsation motions are preferable to thrusting or buzzing.

Love eggs and vibrating eggs sit internally within the vagina meaning they are usually right on top of the g-spot area. Delivering deep rumbling vibrations they are the perfect sex toy for some serious stimulation.

Here are just a few of the best selling sex toys for this type of play.

Love Distance Range App Controlled Love Egg

Love Distance Range App Controlled Rechargeable Love Egg Vibrator

  • A vibrating egg with app control; perfect for long distance lovers.
  • Whether you are 10 metres, 10 miles or 10 countries away, you can still play together.
  • Long distance app control provides chat, video and audio for the ultimate sexting.
  • Rechargeable and waterproof.
  • Phone Stand and Storage Bag included.

CalExotics Eden Ripple Silicone G Spot Vibrator

CalExotics Eden Ripple Silicone G-Spot Vibrator

  • The stylish curves of this vibrant vibrator reach effortlessly to caress your G-Spot.
  • 10 exciting vibration modes for tailor-made pleasure.
  • This vibrator is super versatile and can be used for both internal (vaginal only) and external stimulation.
  • Simple to use push-button control for uncomplicated pleasure.

Loving Joy Realistic Silicone Dildo 6 Inch

Loving Joy Realistic Silicone Dildo 6 Inch
  • A lifelike dildo with 6 insertable inches for penetrating pleasures.
  • Shaped with a slight curve that finds the G-Spot or P-Spot effortlessly.
  • Go hands-free with the strong suction cup base.
  • Made from silky smooth silicone.
  • Harness compatible.

Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator

Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator

  • Powerful and iconic, this rabbit vibrator provides simultaneous clitoral and g-spot stimulation.
  • 36 possible vibration combinations for endless play opportunities.
  • Fully rechargeable so you can enjoy battery-free fun.
  • 2 separate motors and 15 speeds provide satisfying sensations for blended orgasms.
  • A luxurious satin bag perfect for gifting and also discreet storage.

G-Spot Sex Positions

Of course, it isn’t just sex toys that have the ability to reach this zone. There are plenty of different sex positions too!

  • Get On Top – this can also be known as Cowgirl or Rider. The person with the penis or strap on dildo is seated. The person with the G-spot climbs aboard. Sitting with chests facing each other this is not only great for finding the G-spot it is also intimate enabling eye contact and cuddles.
  • Sexy Spooning – this one is nice and simple. Lying on your sides both facing forward, get into the spoons position. The person with the penis or strap on needs to be behind.
  • Doggy Style – in order for this one to work you need to point your butt towards the sky. Tilting enables the penis to reach the front vaginal wall more easily.
  • Modified Cowgirl – Similar to getting on top only this time, the person with the penis, or strap on is lying flat on their back. Saddle up girlfriend and enjoy the ride!

In Conclusion

Armed with this new found knowledge go forth and conquer that G-spot with gusto! Explore, play, and revel in the pleasure it can bring.

If this blog has wet your whistle for more then why not check out the passionbugs blog “How To Use a G-Spot Vibrator”.

Or get shopping with our full range of G-Spot Vibrators.

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