This quick guide might be short, but it is packed with everything you need to know about how to suck a clit (without sucking at it). So pay attention and listen up because we’re diving tongue-first into this sacred art with no messing about. Curious newbie or seasoned pro, here’s your cheeky guide to becoming a lick legend!
Table of Contents
- Mastering the Basics: Clit Anatomy 101
- Setting the Mood: Creating the Perfect Atmosphere
- Techniques You’ll Love: From Gentle to Intense
- Timing is Everything: Understanding Rhythms
- Communication is Key: Listening to Feedback
- Enhancing the Experience: Toys and Tools
- Common Mistakes and How to Avoid Them
- Ready to Elevate Your Game? Try These Tips Now!
Mastering the Basics: Clit Anatomy 101
First things first: the clit is unique – it is the only organ in the human body with the sole purpose of pleasure. Situated at the top of the vulva, hidden away under hood, this petite pearl might be small in size, but don’t be deceived. It’s a powerhouse of over 8,000 nerve endings (that’s twice as many as the penis) all designed to bring the best vibes. Gently pull the hood back if needed, and voilà! But the clit isn’t just that cute little nub peeking out. Oh no — that’s only the tip of the iceberg. The clit encompasses the vagina internally too, meaning get your clit worship right, and you’ll have her begging for more. Mastering how to suck a clit starts with understanding its full structure — so take your time exploring and appreciating everything it has to offer.
Setting the Mood: Creating the Perfect Atmosphere
It’s never a good idea to dive straight in. Clits are far more responsive with a little TLC. Light some candles, play some tunes, get comfy. A warm sensual massage is great, especially if your hands wander downstairs occasionally. When aroused, the clit will swell, making it easier to tap into those juicy nerve endings for greater sensations and maximum pleasure.
Techniques You’ll Love: From Gentle to Intense
How to suck a clit right means starting slow. Don’t be afraid to tease. Think butterfly kisses, not Dyson vacuum. Gentle licks and flicks will be far more effective than going at it hell for leather. Build up speed and intensity and don’t be afraid to involve the tongue. Tongues can provide gentle penetration and nibbling. You can increase sexual tension with teasing. Caress the area close to the clit before allowing her direct contact.
Timing is Everything: Understanding Rhythms
Our bodies love rhythm, especially when it comes to sex. That’s why so many sex toys come with a variety of vibration patterns. Your mouth needs to do the same, so find a rhythm that works and stick to it. Consistency is key. It helps your lover relax into play as they sense what might be coming.
Communication is Key: Listening to Feedback
It might sound obvious but ask your partner what works for them and what feels good. Check in with them and pay attention to body language. If they are moving their hips towards you, then you’re getting something right. Hips pulling away could signal your latest move wasn’t a hit.
Enhancing the Experience: Toys and Tools
Don’t be afraid to bring in a wingman for back up. Vibrators, fingers and sex lube can all mix things up for even more wow factor, and they save any jaw ache.
Here’s a few of our favourite clit sucking vibrators:
Cutest Clit Sucker
The Satisfyer Cutie Heart is small, simple to operate and fits in the palm of your hand. It’s a great addition to any oral sex allowing you to switch from mouth to toy and back again to keep things exciting. Fully waterproof so you can indulge that clit in the shower or the bath. Plus its fully rechargeable for battery free fun.
Best for Solo and Partnered Play
The Mia Silicia Double Pleasure vibrating and biting vibrator takes things even further because this toy can do everything your mouth can do – only it never gets tired. Providing a gentle nibbling sensation in addition to 10 different pulsing and sucking motions, this vibe it the ultimate clit sucker.
Best User Friendly Clit Sucker
Want something a little simpler? Try the Loving Joy Rose Vibrator. In a choice of red or purple, this beautiful bloom has a central suction mouth combined with soft textured nubs that provide complete clitoral and vulva satisfaction.
Budget Clitoral Stimulator
If you’re on a bit of a budget, why not go for a Rocks Off Touch of Velvet bullet vibrator. The tapered tip and compact dimensions makes it ideal for precise stimulation of that precious pearl. Bullet vibrators are also the perfect tool for teasing and pleasing any other external erogenous zones including inner thighs and nipples.
Common Mistakes and How to Avoid Them
Before you dive in mouth-first, remember nobody’s perfect. But let’s try and avoid any rookie moves that could turn hot to not real fast.
Going in Too Hard, Too Fast: The clit is seriously sensitive so it’s not going to enjoy too much, too soon. Slow down and take your time – imagine you’re whispering sweet nothings with your mouth.
Ignoring the Clitoral Hood: Neglecting the clitoral hood or not adjusting for sensitivity can leave your partner feeling… meh. So get under that hood and make sure you’re giving the entire powerhouse your full, undivided attention.
Lack of Rhythm: You’re not licking a melting ice-cream. Random flicks, chaotic licks, or changing patterns every three seconds is going to kill the mood. Find a rhythm and stick with it. Consistency = climax.
Neglecting the Surrounding Area: The clit is the star, yes — but love the thighs, the vulva, all of it and don’t get tunnel vision. Looking after the entire downstairs will add to the fireworks!
Not Reading the Room (or the Body): If your partner starts tensing or pulling away, it’s their way of saying something doesn’t feel great. Stay tuned to their movements and reactions and get ready to change tack if needed. Their breathing, their movements and their sounds are your cheat sheet to pleasure.
Ready to Elevate Your Game? Try These Tips Now!
Think you’re ready to turn good head into explosive head? Here are a few pro tips that’s sure to see them gripping the sheets.
- Add a flavoured lube – ok, they won’t get the benefit but it’ll turn oral sex into a tasty treat for you too.
- Imagine you’re savouring the world’s most delicious lollipop. As you suck, gently swirl your tongue.
- Light fingering or applying pressure around the clit as you suck will further heighten the sensations.
- Alternate between flat-tongue licks and focused tip-of-the-tongue flicks to keep things spicy.
- And above all — be enthusiastic. Clits love confidence and after this guide you are a sucking sex god!
Now you know how to suck a clit like a true pro, it’s time to put your skills into action and leave your lover utterly breathless. Keen to discover more about the clitoris? Check out our other passionbugs sex guides and advice.
