Whether you’ve ever used a dildo or not, it’s a safe bet to say you could recognise one in a sex toy line up. But what about double dildos? Also known as double dongs, these delectable delights offer an entirely different experience if you know how to use them.
In this blog we aim to give you all the top tips you need to you know exactly how to use double ended dildos for the ultimate penetrative adventures.
Obviously double dildos are still in the business of dishing out the irresistible inner sensations, but they do it with just a pinch more sass… If you’ve always fancied the idea of double penetration or you and your partner are intrigued by pegging play, then a double ended dildo could be just the toy you’re looking for.
Table of Contents
- Different Types of Double Dildo
- Why Choose a Double Ended Dildo?
- How to Use Double Ended Dildos for Solo Play
- How to Use Double Ended Dildos with Your Partner
- Safety First
- Conclusion
Different Types of Double Dildo
There are few variations to look out for and how to use double ended dildos varies depending on the type you plump for.
Some double dildos will be a single length of shaft with a bulbous head on each end. These may, or may not be styled to look like a real penis. The longer dildos are ideal for those that love a good dildo but don’t want their partner to miss out on the action. This is because they are big enough to enable one person each end.
Me You Us Double Dong Dildo Black- 18 Inch
Others may be a single long shaft with a bulbous head at one end and a shorter bulb at the other end, designed to be used for pegging and strap-on sex. These can also be known as strapless strap-ons.
ToyJoy Bend Over Boyfriend Strapless Strap-On
There are the smaller double ended dildos that are more flexible. Designed to be used by just one person for dual anal and vaginal simultaneously. These are just for those of us with a vagina.
Me You Us Double Mini Penetration Dildo
And then there are the suction cup double dildos. These may or may not vibrate.
SilexD Realistic Double Penetrator Vibrating Dildo
Why Choose a Double Ended Dildo?
Double ended dildos have the power to do several different arousing activities.
- They can penetrate people with a vagina whilst simultaneously penetrating their butt
- They can be shared by two people at the same time either vaginally or anally
- One person can enjoy both ends at the same time for dual penetrative stimulation
- If you fantasise about having a threesome but don’t actually want a third person in the bedroom, then a double ended dildo can help you fulfil those desires.
When it comes to choosing the best dildo for your needs there are few things you might want to consider:
- If you are a newbie in the word of double enders then you are probably going to best opting for a more flexible, softer silicone type toy. This will make using the dildo that bit easier as you get used to your new bed mate.
- If you are looking to use your dildo with a partner then you are going to need a longer dildo. We’d recommend anything over 12 inches so that you both have plenty of room to move about freely.
- If you are already a seasoned pro then a firmer glass dildo may take your fancy. Not only can these provide a fuller sensation, you can use them for some tantalising temperature play.
How to Use Double Ended Dildos for Solo Play
If you choose to use your double dildo for solo pleasure then first of all – good choice!
To begin you are going to need to ensure each end is well lubricated, so grab your favourite water-based lube and be generous.
There are two pretty standard methods of climbing aboard your ride. But if you have any better ways we would love to hear from you…
How to Insert Your Double Dildo
- Get comfy on your back. This can be on the bed, on the floor or even a chaise lounge if you are feeling classy. Pop a cushion, pillow or even a folded towel under your hips and spread your legs apart. Now slowly and gently insert one end in your booty. Next bend the other end upwards towards you before slowly inserting into the vagina. Take your time. Give your body a chance to get used to the toy before proceeding. You can insert as much or as little or as feels good for you. This method will leave you with a handle that you can use for thrusting and manoeuvring your dildo.
- Alternatively, bend your dong into a ‘U’ shape before resting it on any clean surface with each end facing upwards. Chose a surface at the right height for you to be able to squat over the dong. This could be the floor, a coffee table or a chair. As before, insert one end gently and slowly before inserting the other. Once in position, you are free to ride.
- If you are using a suction cup double dildo, these tend to be firmer than single double dongs. You can stick them to a chair, a wall or even the floor of the shower to hop on board. Get on all fours and back onto your dildo. Any clean flat surface should hold the dildo still whilst you get yourself in position.
Practice Your Blow Jobs
In addition to the double whammy of dildo delights how about trying the ‘Thrust & Suck’ position. Have one end of the dildo inside whichever orifice takes you fancy and have the other end (clean) in your mouth. This is an orgasmic way to practice your BJ technique.
How to Use Double Ended Dildos with Your Partner
Playing with a partner can be a bit more of a challenge but only until you find a way that works for you both. Stick with it because the results will be soooo worth it.
So get experimenting. This bit can be great fun because we guarantee the first few attempts may find one or both of you falling over at least once so be prepared to giggle.
Some proven methods that work well for couples:
- Both partners take up a doggie position on all fours. Face away from each other with the dildo between you. Make sure that dildo is well lubed. Now back up – one each end. This method means you can both take things at your own speed, your own way and without pressure. Remember to be patient with each other as you get accustomed to this new experience.
- Sit facing each other, this can be on your bottoms or couching but either way, legs apart. Take your well lubed dildo and hold it between you. Facing each other enables you to work together to get the dildo in position. This method can also be highly arousing as you watch each other inserting the dildo inside. By wrapping you legs around each other you can get closer and make the experience intensely intimate.
Sex positions that involve lying down work better with this type of dildo. Gravity will pull the dildo down and out if you attempt standing up sex positions. We recommend the classic missionary, spooning and cowgirl.
Play Out Your Fantasies
Like the idea of being in the middle of a threesome? A double dong along with other double penetration sex toys, can bring that fantasy alive. Whether you choose to bring this to life during solo masturbation or with your partner the results are well worth a little bit of trick manoeuvring.
Safety First
No double dipping. In other words don’t be interchanging the ends (yukky!)
Talk to your partner and ensure open communication whilst you play. Check in on each other. Not only does this ensure safe play it will also mean you get more from the experience, helping you to figure out what feels best.
Go slow. Take your time, especially if anal intercourse is involve.
Use plenty of lube to stay comfortable.
Double dildos are for more experienced dildo player, so if you like the idea of a double ender but haven’t yet dipped your toes into the wonderous world of dildos, we highly recommend starting out with a traditional single dildo first. See it as some very erotic homework!
Conclusion
Exploring the world of double-ended dildos offers a new way to penetrate both yourself and your lover. These exciting new dimensions of pleasure can elevate both solo play and partnered play. From varied designs to versatile uses, a double dong caters to diverse fantasies and preferences.
Remember to prioritise safety, comfort, communication, and always use plenty of lube. Whether you’re a newbie or a pro, there’s a double-ended delight ready to take your intimate experiences to the next level.
Discover more about these dildos with the passionbugs Guides to Double Ended Dildos.
