Welcome to a blog all about how to use a suction vibrator, and trust us, this one is about to blow you away (quite literally!) Regardless of whether you’re an absolute beginner or looking to improve your technique, this guide is here to give you all the ins and outs to these bestselling vibrators. Let us suck you in with top tips, helpful hints and all the info you’re going to need to cause a serious stir in the bedroom.
Table of Contents
- Understanding Suction Vibrators: What Are They?
- Preparing to Use Your Suction Vibrator
- Step-by-Step Guide: How to Use a Suction Vibrator
- Exploring Different Techniques with Suction Vibrators
- Cleaning and Caring for Your Suction Vibrator
- Common Mistakes to Avoid When Using a Suction Vibrator
- Our Top 5 Suction Vibrators
- Dive Deeper: FAQs and Resources for Further Learning
Understanding Suction Vibrators: What Are They?
Suction vibrators are a type of vibrator that sucks… in a good way! These innovative sex toys are specifically designed to arouse your most intimate areas, using the power of suction and air pressure pulses. They can often be refereed to as clit suckers, because they primarily focus on the clitoris. Unlike traditional vibrators the suction vibrator creates the sensual sensation of sucking or tapping without direct contact. Which is great because friction risk is reduced and comfort is enhanced. Typically these vibes work by a small nozzle or mouth, that fits over the targeted area, to deliver rhythmical air pulsations. These vibrators provide the same feelings as oral sex.
Preparing to Use Your Suction Vibrator
A little preparation goes a long way when it comes to… well…“coming”. Prepare your play and we guarantee a deeper, more intense and more rewarding experience. Here’s how to get ready:
- Scrub up. Making sure your vibe is clean before play is crucial if you want to get the best performance. Clean sex toys will always be more pleasurable and more inviting to use. Cleanliness is also super important for maintaining your sexual health.
- Power up. If your vibrator is battery operated be sure to have some quality batteries to hand. If your vibe is rechargeable, pop it on charge a good hour or two before playtime.
- Lube up. Having a bottle of water based lubricant to hand is going to elevate both comfort and sensations. Lube helps to create a seal between the suction head and your skin helping to intensify suction. Lube also helps the body to orgasm.
Step-by-Step Guide: How to Use a Suction Vibrator
Using a sucking vibrator is a little different to other types of vibrator and that is simply because of the way they work. Suction vibrators are different in the fact they don’t require applied or pressured contact with the body. What they do need is a seal between the nozzle or mouth of the toy, and the area of the chosen body area.
Here are 6 easy steps to getting the most from your suction vibe:
- Check out the controls. Before play, get to know your new best friend. Turn it on, explore the controls and get a feel for how it moves.
- Get comfy. Find a private, comfortable space that feels relaxed. A comfy room will help you to focus on the experience. If your device is waterproof, why not consider taking it to the shower or bath?
- Apply lube. Lube is needed to maximise the suction power. Creating a seal between you and the toy, lube not only improves performance, it feels fantastic too!
- Position the nozzle. If you are playing with your clitoris you need to get into a position where you can easily access your clit. Do whatever feels best for you but spreading your legs is key. Hold the nozzle over the clitoris. Having already applied lube, the toy won’t need to touch the clitoris, it just needs to be close. Be careful not to press too hard.
- Experiment with different settings. Exploring settings will allow you to adjust the intensity levels and the vibration patterns. This means you can tailor the play to best meet your needs, wants and desires. Once you are confident, why not try different positions too?
- Take your time. Slow and steady will ensure a more gratifying final result. Allow yourself time to explore how the vibrations feel and how the body reacts.
Exploring Different Techniques with Suction Vibrators
Maybe you already know how to use a suction vibrator. Maybe you are already competent and confident in getting the results you need. So maybe, you’re reading this blog because you want to mix things up a bit? In that case here are a few saucy suggestions for different ways to play.
Edging: Build momentum by starting slow. Then move through the gears to turn up the excitement. Bring yourself close to climax before stopping, letting the need to orgasm subside, before going again.
Bring in a partner: Whilst it might be tempting to keep a clit sucker all to yourself, involving a lover can be great fun. Use it on each other, put on a show, or simply add it to your foreplay repertoire.
Try different positions: Lying flat on your back, standing up and lounging on the sofa will all create their own set of sensations. As will, propping yourself up on pillows to change angles.
Pair with other sex toys: You don’t have to use these brilliant vibrators all alone. Pairing them with other sex toys is a sure fire way to bring new and exciting sensations into play. Hands-free toys such as butt plugs, nipple suckers and love eggs are all perfect partners.
Temperature play: If your vibe is made of silicone you can heat it up or cool it down to add further dimensions of sensation.
Cleaning and Caring for Your Suction Vibrator
Ensuring your suction vibrator is cleaned after every use is essential to ensure its longevity and hygiene. Cleaning is easy and quick when you know what to do. Here’s how to clean a sucking vibrator:
Firstly, check if your vibrator is waterproof. If it is waterproof then rinse it under warm running water to remove any debris. Apply a mild anti-bacterial soap or specialised toy cleaner and scrub gently. Rinse again, being sure to remove all traces of soap or cleaner. Finally leave to air dry on a clean towel.
If your vibrator isn’t waterproof, no panic. Use a damp cloth or kitchen paper to remove debris. Apply a mild anti-bacterial soap or specialised toy cleaner and rub gently being careful to avoid getting any electronic components wet. Use another cloth or more kitchen paper to wipe the vibrator dry.
Store your vibrator away from direct sources of heat or light. A cool, dry place is best. Designated sex toy storage can help to keep your vibe safe until next playtime.
If your vibrator has batteries, remove these before storage. If your suction vibrator is rechargeable, be careful not to overcharge as this can reduce the battery lifespan.
Common Mistakes to Avoid When Using a Suction Vibrator
Using a suction vibrator isn’t complicated but there are a few mistakes that are best avoided for a truly orgasmic time.
| Common mistake | Why is it important? | Solution |
|---|---|---|
| Skipping lube. | This can result in less suction and more friction. | Apply lube to the rim of the nozzle and yourself, before positioning and turning on. This will create a firmer seal for a more powerful sucking action. |
| Misplacement of the nozzle. | Play can be uncomfortable. Sensations can be less arousing. Effectiveness is reduced. | Take time to find an angle or position that is comfortable and enables a good fit. |
| Jumping straight to max power. | Maximum intensity may be overwhelming to begin with. It may result in more discomfort rather than pleasure. | Be patient. Start on the lowest setting and work your way up to higher settings as and when you are ready. |
| Using the wrong lube. | Using a lube that isn’t compatible will lead to deterioration of the vibrators material which in turn can reduce its lifespan. | Check manufactures information or when in doubt, choose a water-based lube. Water-based lubes are compatible with all sex toy materials. |
| Sharing without precautions. | May result in the spread of harmful bacteria, increasing risk of infection. | If you want to share the pleasure of a clit sucker with a partner, its important to give it a quick clean first. Or, given the affordability of many of these toys, why not get one each? |
Our Top 5 Suction Vibrators
Not yet chosen a suction vibrator? Don’t worry, we’ve picked out our favourite top 5.
Best for Simultaneous G-Spot and Clitoral Stimulation
Combining targeted G-spot vibrations with gentle clitoral suction, the Cover Me G-Spot and Clitoral Vibe provides the ultimate dual stimulation. Delivering synchronised pleasure to your both the clit and the g-spot, this is an unforgettable experience that may lead to a blended orgasm. Fully rechargeable, waterproof and featuring customisable intensity settings, it’s perfect for those seeking simultaneous, internal and external stimulation.
Best for Discretion
The OHMAMA My Duck Vibrator combines playful design with powerful functionality for discreet pleasure. Shaped like an adorable rubber duck, this vibe can sit happily on the bathroom shelf without drawing unwanted attention. It’s discreet design offers precise clitoral suction with a variety of intensity settings. Compact and lightweight, it is the perfect travel companion for fun on the go.
Best for Affordability
If you are new to suction vibes or maybe on a tighter budget, check out the Loving Joy Suction Vibrator. An uncompromising experience that won’t break the bank. With 10 sensual suction settings, it offers a range of sensations. The sleek, compact design, makes it easy to handle and it’s uncomplicated controls make for fuss free fun.
Best for Oral Sex Sensations
For an indulgent oral sex experience, look no further than the Mia Silicia Vibrating & Biting Vibrator. It mimics the sensations of oral sex with its clever and unique biting motions. Using delicate sucking and nibbling vibrations, it delivers thrilling clitoral stimulation. It’s the perfect choice for those seeking an intimate and lifelike experience.
Best for App Control
The Svakom Pulse Lite Neo App-Controlled Clitoral Suction vibe is perfect for tech lovers, long distance lovers or simply those that want fully control over their pleasure. Its advanced app enables you to fully tailor your play. Enjoy customisable suction settings, remote control, and interactive features for personalised or partner-enhanced play.
Dive Deeper: FAQs and Resources for Further Learning
If you still have questions about these most popular vibrators, perhaps you will find the answer in these frequently asked questions?
Frequently Asked Questions
The different between a suction vibrator and a clitoral stimulator vibrator is simply the way they tease and please, the clitoris. A suction vibrator uses air pulses and waves to mimic sucking motions, much like the sensations felt during cunnilingus. A clitoral stimulator uses traditional vibrations to thrill the clitoris.
No, suction vibrators won’t desensitise the clitoris. It is an urban myth that using a vibrator too much will make it less sensitive. This simply isn’t true. Providing plenty of lube is used and the vibrator is used in accordance with its manufacturer’s instructions, you are free to indulge your pleasures as often as your like.
A sucking vibrator works by encouraging blood flow to the clitoris and surrounding area with the use of airflow. This increased blood flow causes the clitoris to swell and become more sensitive which inevitably leads to better orgasms.
The simple answer is yes, a rose vibrator is a suction vibrator. Whilst the rose vibrator is a bestselling suction vibe it is only one type of suction vibe. There are a whole host of sucking vibrator models to choose from including ones that look like ducks that can be hidden in plain sight on the edge of your bath tub!
The best suction vibrator will be the one that meets your individual preferences and needs. To help you select the ideal device, consider the following factors:
What is your budget?
Do you need a discreet, extra quiet vibrator?
Are you looking for remove or app control?
Does your vibe need to be waterproof?
Is it important that your chose vibrator has multiple vibration settings?
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