What is squirting and how does it happen is a question we get asked a lot. So we thought it made sense to splash it about in a blog. passionbugs will answer all those questions you dared to ask. Plus a few that maybe you were too scared to mention?
Ready to dive in and learn more? Grab a towel because things are about to get very wet and very wild …
Table of Contents
- Is Squirting Real?
- Is Squirting the Same as an Orgasm?
- What Fluid Comes Out of the Body During Squirting?
- What Does Squirting Look Like?
- How to Squirt
- The Best Sex Toys for Squirting
- Conclusion
Is Squirting Real?
When it comes to squirting lots of people ask is squirting a real thing? And it’s not surprising that this question comes up a lot. Because up until recently, very little attention, or research, has been given to this marvel. Despite its appearance in the Karma Sutra back in 200 to 400 AD not much is known is about this wonder.
So…What Is Squirting?
We do know that Squirting is the phenomenon where a woman (or person with a vagina) releases a significant amount of fluid during sexual activity. This can be an involuntary action over which they have no control. In order for this to happen a person needs to be sexually aroused. We also know that is has become far more acceptable and mainstream in recent times. And that lots more of us want to be able to achieve this state of ecstasy. Let’s face it, who doesn’t want to enjoy incredible orgasms!
Is Squirting the Same as an Orgasm?
Squirting is not necessarily an indication of an orgasm. Squirting may form part of an orgasm but it can also happen without.
Neither is it the same as a female ejaculation, although many people use the term “squirting” to refer to both.
The most important thing is that squirting can feel incredible so whether it occurs at the same time as an orgasm or not, it’s going to be extremely good fun.
What Fluid Comes Out of the Body During Squirting?
The fluid expelled during squirting comes from the Skene’s gland (aka the female prostate) and on through the urethra (pee hole to you and me).
Squirt is made up 0.5% urea, a component of urine. And that makes sense when you think that is coming via your pee hole.; there’s bound to be a trace of pee.
Studies have shown this fluid to be very similar to that of male ejaculation and again there will be a trace of pee there as it is coming via the male or penis pee hole.
What Does Squirting Look Like?
Contrary to what the adult movies would have us believe, squirting will not be a waterfall of erotic waves cascading over you or lover. The truth is, squirting can be much less dramatic.
Squirt will usually be water like in its appearance. But for some it may be thicker and cloudier. The amount of squirt released differs from person to person. It may be a teaspoon, an eggcup or a small beaker. It really is down to the individual.
How to Squirt
Let’s get to the fun bit. If you’ve never squirted and you want to give it a go then let us show you how. Squirting can be achieve by solo play and masturbation or with a partner and during sexual intercourse.
Get Prepared
- There isn’t a need to go out and buy rubber sheeting. And it’s not likely that you’re going to need a mop and bucket. BUT a thick towel or PVC sheeting on the play area or bed is going to keep things clean.
- If the thought of pee bothers you, it can help to go to the toilet first.
- Get yourself in the mood and turned on; just as you would with any other type of sexy play.
- It’s important that the body is relaxed. Squirting won’t happen if the muscles are tense or the body is stressed.
Stimulation
- Squirting is more likely to occur when clitoral stimulation is combined with G-Spot stimulation.
- This can be done using the tired and tested fingering method or by using sex toys. Let’s look at the finger method first.
How to Squirt Using Your Fingers
When we say your fingers, there’s nothing to stop this being the fingers of your lover!
With a generous helping of lube, insert two fingers and feel along the wall of the vagina until you reach the g-spot. The G-Spot will feel very different to the rest of the vaginal wall. It is situated approx. 2 to 3 inches inside on the front wall facing the belly button. When turned on this area swells making it pronounced and easier to locate.
Using a “come hither” motion that is both fast and relatively hard, is a great start. On the outside of the vagina, use the thumb to press against the clitoris. This dual action should see results. But if this all sounds like far too much work why not call in your wingmen (aka sex toys)?
How to Squirt Using Sex Toys
Best sex toys for clitoral stimulation:
- Bullet Vibrator
- Clit Sucker
- Clitoral Stimulator
- Finger Vibe
Best sex toys for g spot stimulation:
- Dildo vibrator (needs to be curved)
- Dildo (needs to be curved)
- G Spot Vibrator
Not forgetting the infamous Rabbit Vibrators. These rampant bunnies offer dual stimulation of both the clitoris and the g spot in one simple toy.
The Best Sex Toys for Squirting
passionbugs bestselling clitoral stimulator:
Rocks Off Colour Me Orgasmic 7 Function Colour Changing Bullet Vibrator
- What is change colour as the passion heats up
- The tapered tip makes for easy precise stimulation
- 7 different vibration settings
- Small and portable making it ideal for travel
- Fully waterproof for fun in the bath and the shower
passionbugs bestselling g spot vibrator:
Seven Creations Penetrating Pleasures Realistic G-Spot Dildo Vibrator 8 Inch
- A vibrator and dildo in one toy
- Affordable yet 100% effective
- 8 insertable inches
- Lifelike look and feel
- Uncomplicated, easy-to-use switch control for effortless fun
passionbugs bestselling rabbit vibrator:
Loving Joy Jessica Rabbit G-Spot Slim Rabbit Vibrator
- Bestselling iconic design
- Thrilling dual clitoral and g spot stimulation
- Slimline for easy insertion and precision handling
- 6 vibration modes to explore
- Powerful for deep satisfaction
How to go about stimulating the clitoris and g spot is totally up to you. The erotic options are pretty much endless. But remember, this erogenous zone responds better to pressure, rather than friction. And don’t stress if it doesn’t happen first time. Putting yourself under pressure won’t help matters. Stay calm, stay sexy and stay relaxed.
Conclusion
If you are able to master squirting, it can be exceptionally pleasurable and satisfying. If you are playing with a partner it can be a confidence boost to them also. Because squirting can mean the heights of orgasmic pleasure have been reached.
Ultimately, squirting is a totally natural and normal part of female sexuality. Therefore, it should be celebrated and respected. So open those floodgates, and let the good times flow.
