Ball Gag Sex Toys
Ball gag sex toys are an essential part of BDSM play, designed to enhance intimacy and power dynamics by introducing elements of restraint and sensory control. These versatile bondage accessories come in a variety of styles, sizes, and materials, catering to both beginners and seasoned enthusiasts looking to intensify their experiences. Explore our range of ball gags, mouth gags and bit gags designed to silence moans and elevate power play.
What Are Ball Gag Sex Toys?
Ball gag sex toys are a type of bondage toy. They can also be known as BDSM (bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, and masochism) accessories – sounds extreme, but it doesn’t have to be. These types of toys can be very intimate too. Ball gags are used by people that enjoy indulging in restrictive play. They are typically used to prevent speech, enhance power exchange and for role play. The sight and sound of a gagged person can be highly arousing for lots of us. If you get a kick from a muffled moan, these could be the perfect bondage accessory for you.
Features of a Ball Gag
Ball gag sex toys are distinctive in their looks and whilst the range is vast, there are several common key features to be on the lookout for.
- Design: Most ball gags consist of a ball and a mouth strap. The ball sits inside the mouth and is held in place by the strap that will usually go around the head of the wearer.
- Size: Ball gags come in a range of sizes to suit the experience level of the user. Beginners may want to go for smaller balls to begin with, whilst more experienced players may enjoy the challenge of a larger ball gag.
- Adjustability: For a comfortable fit during play, it is essential that your ball gag is secure. Therefore, adjustable straps are an absolute must-have feature of any ball gag sex toy.
- Variations: Ball gags come in a variety of different designs. Some include breathable holes making them more manageable for beginners. Larger, more restrictive varieties are available for the pros and some even feature attached rings for combining the toys with leads or leashes.
Incorporating Ball Gags Into Sex
Gags can be incorporated into both bondage play and couples play, injecting an exciting element of restraint and submission. These versatile sex toys have lots of different uses, making them a popular choice for both beginners and professionals alike.
Power Play: Ball gags can be a useful tool for those that enjoy dominance and submission scenarios. These toys elevate and enhance feelings of control and compliance. In turn, gags can heighten sexual tension, build atmosphere and ultimately lead to more fulfilling sex.
Sensory Play: When speech is restricted, we rely on other methods of communication, such as touch. When the sensation of touch is enhanced, stimulation is also heightened, meaning every stroke, flick, nip or spank is more exciting, arousing and thrilling. Side note – the same is true when you use a blindfold!
Aesthetic Appeal: Lots of people use and wear ball gags simply for their visual symbolism and the erotic turn-on of seeing someone with wearing the toy.
Tips For Using a Ball Gag
If you are new to gags, here are our top 5 tips for using ball gag sex toys:
- Get comfortable. Being comfortable will enable you to relax and enjoy the experience, so make sure the gag fits well. A gag needs to be appropriate for the experience and size of the person wearing it. Placing the gag behind the teeth will likely result in better comfort. Agree a plan with your partner before play begins – this will provide reassurance. Finally, agree a signal to stop play – this will provide further peace of mind. Avoid leaving the gag in for extended periods; 10–15 minutes is a good starting point.
- Strap in. Be sure that the gag fits securely. Not so tight that it hurts but not so loose that it slips or moves about.
- Keep it clean. Gags should not be shared unless they are thoroughly cleaned between partners. Clean the sex toy both before and after use to prevent any harmful bacteria from entering the body.
- Check in on your partner. Throughout play, it is vital that the wellbeing of the person wearing the gag is monitored. Take a moment, periodically, just to make sure they are still comfortable, happy and consenting to the play that is happening. At no time during play should a gagged person be left unattended. Be on the look out for the pre-agreed signal to stop play if required.
- Take it up a gear. Once you have mastered wearing the gag, why not enhance the experience with further bondage toys? Handcuffs, ankle restraints, feather ticklers, spankers and blindfolds can all add another element of excitement, helping to intensify play for even more dramatic fun.
Frequently Asked Questions
Are ball gags safe?
Yes, ball gag sex toys are perfectly safe, providing they are used with plenty of common sense. The person wearing the gag needs to be able to breath comfortably via their nose. So, it’s not a good idea to use a gag if someone has a cold or blocked nose. A gag should fit comfortably too, so make sure the size is appropriate. The ball gag should be able to be removed quickly if required and therefore you must ensure fastenings are in working order before play commences. Finally, never leave a gagged person alone.
How long can I wear a ball gag for?
If you haven’t used a ball gag before, wear it for no longer than 15 minutes at first. Once comfortable, you can then gradually increase the duration of wear each time you play – increments of 5 minutes at a time is sensible. Keep in mind that individual tolerance levels vary. Some users may be more comfortable with less than 15 minutes, while experienced pros may comfortably wear a gag for much longer. Pay attention to your body’s signals and stop play immediately if it becomes uncomfortable.
Can you breath with a ball gag?
Yes, you can still breath when wearing a ball gag. However, breathing may be limited via the mouth, so it is important that the wearer can breath easily through their nose. It’s not a good idea to attempt using a ball gag if you have a cold or blocked nose. Some ball gag sex toys are designed with holes in them. This type of gag is known as “breathable” and can provide a more comfortable experience if you are worried about the ability to breath easily during play.
Will my mouth fill up with saliva when I wear a ball gag?
Yes, the mouth can fill with saliva whilst wearing a ball gag. For some people, this is part of the attraction of gags. To remove saliva, simply tilt your head forward and let it flow from the mouth. Tipping the head back and attempting to swallow the saliva may be difficult, as ball gags tend to restrict the ability to swallow easily.
Types of Gag Sex Toys
Ball Gags
Ball gags are naughty accessories designed for playful moments between consenting adults. Picture a colourful ball (not the kind we throw our dogs, juggle with or bounce) and imagine using it to prevent any moans or groans from your lover. Typically made of silicone, these balls will be attached to a strap that secures around the head. The ball sits gently behind the teeth. Ball gags inject a little mystery and excitement into sex, role play or power play. For those that enjoy bondage, these simple toys can spark curiosity in couples looking to spice things up in the bedroom.
And whilst a ball gag will muffle words, they can also amplify sensations, heighten arousal, build trust and, ironically, improve communication between lovers.
Open Mouth Gags
Open mouth gags not only prevent speech, they also hold the wearer’s mouth slightly ajar. Often designed with a circular frame or a bit-style bar, they create a sense of vulnerability and sexual anticipation as they force the mouth open. With lips parted, breathing audible and communication limited, their combination of sensuality and aesthetic allure makes them a popular choice for both beginners and pros.
An open mouth gag is likely to make a wearer drool and, for many, this is part of their attraction. If saliva builds up, simply tilt the head forward to keep breathing freely.
Bit Gags
Bit gags don’t feature a ball and they don’t hold the mouth open. Imagine the bit mouthpiece that a horse wears whilst being ridden – this is essentially what a bit gag is, but made for humans. Typically crafted from silicone, faux leather, or rubber, they feature a cylindrical or rod shaped bar that is held in place by straps around the wearer’s head. A popular choice for people that enjoy pony or horse play, these equestrian-style bits enable control and submission for kinky play between couples.
Many people find a bit gag more comfortable than a ball or open-mouth gag as they don’t obstruct breathing or completely silence the wearer.