Bed Restraints for Sex

What Are Bed Restraints?

Bed restraints are your ticket to turning sweet nothings into something a little more… naughty. Whether you’re dipping a toe into kink or going full throttle with BDSM, these sexy straps let you tease, please, and take control—safely and seductively. It’s all about trust, tension, and turning up the heat in the bedroom.

Why Choose Under the Bed Restraints?

Under-the-bed restraints are a discreet and convenient way to transform your bedroom into a bondage playground. As a result, they’re an ideal option for couples looking to experiment. Most types of restraints for sex slide underneath the mattress, meaning they stay hidden when not in use. In addition, with no extra fixings or accessories required, they’re quick to set up, fuss-free, and perfect for spontaneous sessions of dominance and submission. Restraint play can suit:

• Curious couples ready to explore light bondage play
• Beginners wanting a safe, simple way to start BDSM
• Adventurous lovers looking to spice up the bedroom
• Power play enthusiasts interested in control and surrender
• Anyone craving excitement, anticipation, and deeper intimacy

How to Use Restraints for Sex 

If the thought of bed restraints seems a little daunting, don’t stress – we’ve got you covered. Here’s a simple, step-by-step guide to help you get started safely and confidently:

Choose the Right Bed Restraint Kit – Start with an under-the-bed restraint kit. These kits are totally beginner-friendly meaning they can be fitted to your chosen bed quickly and without fuss. Look for kits that have adjustable fastening to ensure the stay put. Newbies should also be on the lookout for kits with soft cuffs and Velcro. This makes for easy fastening and release.

Slide the Straps Under the Mattress – To fit the restraints to the bed, lay the long straps flat under your mattress leaving the cuffs hanging off the sides. Most kits form a simple “X” or “H” shape beneath your bed. Adjust to make sure everything feels even and secure.

Adjust Strap Lengths – Before getting into position, tighten or loosen the straps to suit your preferences. Longer straps provide more movement and freedom, while shorter ones offer more restraint.

Establish a Safe Word – Before any restraint play, agree on a clear safe word or signal. This ensures that both partners feel safe, respected, and in control at all times. Trust is the foundation of great restraint play.

Secure the Cuffs – Now for the fun bit! Gently place your partner’s wrists and ankles in the cuffs. Make sure they’re snug but not too tight—comfort and circulation are key. Velcro or buckle cuffs make it easy to adjust as needed.

Top Tip: Once you feel confident, consider pairing your restraints with other bondage toys like a sex blindfold, feather tickler, or even a gag. These simple additions heighten anticipation and sensory play.

At passionbugs, we make it easy to explore your more daring side. Our carefully selected restraint kits are body-safe, easy to use, and perfect for elevating any sexy playtime.

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