Lubes & Sex Essentials
Explore our one-stop shop for all the best sex essentials. Stock up on the most popular lubricants, massage oils, batteries and condoms and ensure that a lack of sex supplies never kills the moment. Discover a world of better sex with the help of our brilliant essentials range and make sure you’re living your very best sex life.

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- Loving Joy Sex Toy Care Set (250ml + 100ml)
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- The Intimacy Sex Toy Set
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What Are Sex Essentials?
Sex essentials are the unsung heroes of our sex lives, quietly getting on with giving you a good time without fuss. They are all the extra bits and pieces needed to keep sex safe and fun. They are the condoms that prevent pregnancy and STIS. The sex lubes that prevent friction and heighten sensitivity, the massage oils that awaken the nerve endings in our skin, the orgasm gels that help us to reach climax, the cock rings that ensure a longer lasting performance and the sex toy batteries that keep our favourite sex toys running. A well-stocked bedside drawer really can be the difference between good sex and bed sheet gripping, great sex.
Different Types of Sex Essentials
Sex essentials are not the same for everybody. Depending on our relationship status, sexuality, gender and sexual preferences, sex essentials can differ from person to person.
Here are the top ten bestselling sex essentials here at passionbugs:
- Condoms
- Sex Lubricant
- Sex Toy Cleaner
- Sex Toy Batteries
- Massage Oils
- Penis Pumps
- Cock Rings
- Kegel Balls
- Orgasm Gels
- Delay Sprays
Benefits of Sex Essentials
Having sex without the essentials is like riding a horse without a saddle. It’s all perfectly doable, but will you enjoy it as much?
Safe Sex
Sex essentials such as condoms and sex lube help to keep us safe. And as we know, safe sex is the best sex.
Condoms are the most effective form of contraception when it comes to avoiding pregnancy. They also stop the spread of nasty STIs. Whilst a generous application of sex lube will help to reduce friction and prevent a condom from tearing or breaking. Lubes also make everything slip and slide more easily stopping soreness no matter how hard or long you play for.
Playing safe gives us the peace of mind to relax, which in turn lets us focus on our bodies and the sensations, which then leads to better sex.
Hygiene
When we say lets get down and dirty, we don’t actually mean we want to come into contact with germs, bacteria or any of the other less attractive sides to sex. So keeping everything clean is crucial if we are going to have the maximum fun.
Using toy cleaner on your favourite sex toys will keep them looking and feeling their best making them more enticing to use whilst also prolonging their longevity. Toy cleaners make a great alternative to soap and water as they are quicker, less fuss and they are anti-bacterial.
It can be a good idea to think about sex essentials and sex toy storage. Once your items are cleaned, popping them into a sex toy bag will prevent any dust or debris coming into contact with them helping them to stay hygienic for the next time you want to play.
Improved Stamina
Certain types of sex essentials can help to prolong play. Whether you choose to play with a partner or alone, improved stamina will enable you to play longer than ever before. Which can lead to greater satisfaction and more intense orgasms not only for you, but also a partner.
Cock rings, delay sprays, delay condoms, penis pumps, pussy pumps and some masturbators, can all provide the penis and the vagina with an arousing workout. When we subject the body to regular stimulation it learns to resist the urge to climax immediately. It becomes hardened to the stimulation enabling it to take more and more before the need to climax. Used regularly, these sex essentials are sure to see your sexual prowess grow, helping you to last longer between the sheets.
Heightened Pleasure
No matter how good you think your sex life may be, it can always be improved with a few choice sex essentials.
Sex lubricants are so simple, so non-intrusive and very affordable, yet they can have the biggest impact on any solo play or couples play. Why? Because sex lube awakens all those nerve endings in your most intimate parts. Lube will heighten every touch, stroke, flick or lick magnifying its sensations to mind blowing proportions. Sex lube makes it easier for the body to reach climax helping to take pressure off performance and making it easier to reach a happy ending.
Massage oils and orgasm gels work very similarly. They too awaken nerve endings making any play more sensual. If you struggle to reach orgasm by climax alone trying a lube, oil or gel could be all you need for a more fulfilling sex life.
Sex Essentials for Better Sex With a Partner
First and foremost, lube, lube and more lube! Lube will seriously take any sex up a gear. It is the perfect sex essential, and wingman for all relationships. Use it for any sexual activity, intercourse, anal play, oral play and sex toys and it will simply elevate the experience. Lube helps to reduce friction meaning as well as heightening sensations meaning sex is safer, more comfortable and more exciting.
Certain sex toys also make a wonderful addition to foreplay and fun helping to warm you up for the main event. Penis pumps and pussy pumps work by encouraging blood flow into those most intimate zones. For a penis, this increased blood flow will enlarge the erection helping it to feel firmer and temporarily increasing its size. For a vagina, the increase in blood flow will heighten sensitivity in this area, making everything feel sublime and helping the body to reach orgasm with ease.
Kegel balls, jiggle balls and vibrating love eggs can all improve vagina health. Not only are they a seriously sexy activity to enjoy alone or with a partner, they also improve the pelvic floor muscles. And why is that important? Well, stronger pelvic floor muscles equals stronger orgasms and who doesn’t want those?!
Sex Essentials for Better Solo Play
- Lube –Lube is the number one sex essential when it comes to masturbation. It makes everything feel incredible. It stops friction and any nasty soreness. It helps the body to orgasm. If you are playing with sex toys, lube will helps them move more freely for fuss free play.
- Condoms – yes you might not think it, but condoms can save a lot of time when it comes to clean up and we’re not just talking penises. Use them on dildos or vibrators to keep them clean. If you enjoy double dipping, use them to dip into one orifice before swapping for a clean condom and dipping into another orifice!
- Sex Toy Batteries – there will be no bigger let down, than getting yourself all geared up for some serious playtime only to discover your favourite sex toy is dead. Keeping a few packs of sex toy batteries in the bedside drawer will ensure no such trauma.
Sex Essentials FAQs
The best sex essentials are those that suit your own individual needs and preferences. So think about what turns you on and what you need to really enjoy sex. If you need to allow your body and mind time to warm up before sex, then a massage oil could be a great addition to your sex kit. If you want to prevent the risk of pregnancy then condoms are a must. For those that struggle with premature ejaculation then, delay sprays, cock rings and some types of condoms can all help to prolong performance.
Regardless of gender or sexuality, you should always carry condoms if you plan on having sex. It is your responsibility alone to ensure your sex is safe so never presume a partner or a man will have condoms. If you are having a naughty night away, taking a water based lube will certainly elevate the experience and being water based it will be compatible with all types of sex toys and condoms.
When it comes to anal sex there are a couple of extra sex essentials we should all have to hand.
- Anal Lube – the anus is not self-lubricating and therefore anal lube is an absolute must for safe and enjoyable anal sex.
- Anal Douche – douches enable you to cleanse the anus before play. Having a clean booty will help you to relax and feel more confident.
- Sex Toy Cleaner – using anal sex toys will inevitably result in some unwanted bodily debris. Having a toy cleaner to hand will help with a swift and hygienic clean up.
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