Pegging Sex Toys
Discover an arousing combination of power and pleasure with our premium pegging sex toys. Designed for both newbies and experienced explorers we have everything from sleek, beginner-friendly designs to advanced remote control options for the pros. Our pegging kits provide the perfect all-in-one solution, complete with fully adjustable harnesses and interchangeable dildos. Explore our selection today and take your intimate adventures to the next level.In stock
What is Pegging?
The term pegging was coined by the well-known American sex columnist, Dan Savage back in the early 2000s. He used it to refer to the activity where a woman uses a strap on dildo to penetrate a man anally. As seen in the TV Show Broad City (the episode where Abbi becomes the ultimate pegging legend). Films such as Deadpool have also helped to make this kind of anal sex more mainstream.
Nowadays we use the term pegging, to describe anal sex using a strap on dildo or pegging kits. But it is no longer the exclusive property of heterosexual couples. People of all gender, identity and sexuality are embracing this adventurous anal act with literally thousands of us investing in pegging kits and pegging toys.
Who Can Use Pegging Sex Toys?
Pegging is not exclusive to heterosexual couples. People of all sexual orientations and genders can enjoy pegging sex toys. It’s about mutual consent and exploring pleasure, regardless of the genders or sexual orientations involved.
What Sex Toys Are Used for Pegging?
Toys commonly used for pegging include:
- Strap-on dildos (also known as pegging dildos)
- Harnesses
- Strapless strap-ons
- Strap-on kits (also known as pegging kits)
Pegging dildos are specifically designed to be held in a harness via an O-Ring. Most suction cup dildos can be classed as strap-on dildos because they too fit into the O-Rings of harnesses.
Harnesses allow you to swap and change the dildo you choose to play with. Meaning you can enjoy more variation in your play.
Strapless strap-ons can only be worn by women or people with a vagina. Held in place via a vaginal plug, the dildo attached is then used to penetrate their partner.
What Is a Pegging Kit?
Pegging kits include everything you need to discover the joy of pegging or being pegged. When you purchase a kit you know the dildo , or choice of dildos, will fit the harness. And the harness will be fully adjustable to fit the wearer. Kits take the guess work away meaning you can shop in confidence. Perfect for both beginners and experienced users, these convenient kits contain everything needed for a comfortable, secure, and pleasurable pegging experience.
How to Use Pegging Sex Toys
- Know Your Toy – The best way to get used to a new pegging toy is to use it. So whilst this may seem weird…. Try wearing it around the house whilst you do some chores. This is going to help you to get comfortable with it. Get used to how it moves and how it feels. You can’t expect to be amazing the first time you use it, but you will more confident if you’ve practiced first.
- Warm Up – Don’t dive straight in. Take time to get in the mood. Plenty of foreplay helps the body to relax and become aroused. Lots of lube and fingering can be an exciting start. Anal beads or a small butt plug also provide a great bootie warm up.
- Lube Up – The anus does do not self-lubricate. Meaning lube is not optional; it’s essential. So grab some high quality anal lube. Then apply it to both the sex toy and your partner.
- Take Your Time – In a similar way to dildos, going in too fast is not the best approach. It could result in an unpleasant, uncomfortable and possibly painful experienced. going to be at best uncomfortable and at worst painful. Neither of which is sexy. Nothing says you need to insert the full length of the pegging dildo. Talk to your partner and find out what feels good to them. Talking throughout play will ensure you both have a sexy time.
- Have Fun – This is possible the most important bit! There is no denying the first time you see your partner wearing a strap on is going to raise eyebrows and giggles. And so it should. This doesn’t need to be serious to begin with. Enjoy the moment together.
How To Explore Pegging Safely
- Communication: Communication is key. Talking to each other will ensure there are clear expectations and also boundaries. Remember to explain to each other what you want from the experience. Respect the thoughts of your partner. Don’t ask them to do something they don’t want to. When used right, pegging toys can build trust and bring couples closer together. During play remember to check in with each other.
- Safe Words: Establish a safe word before you begin. When picking a safe word, choose a word that can’t be mistaken as something else. Fruits make great safe words. Simply saying NO is not going to work. NO can be mistaken as role play and for this reason should be avoided. Safe words provide reassurance that participation is optional, consenting and a safe word provides each of you with the power to disengage at any point.
- Aftercare: Aftercare means making sure your partner is ok once play has finished. Aftercare can help to avoid any negative feelings post-play. Pegging can be intense and role play can be involved so remember to reassure your partner of your love and respect for them.
Frequently Asked Questions
How is pegging different to anal sex?
Pegging is different to anal sex because it involves penetration using a pegging toy rather than a penis. Traditional anal sex happens when a penis is inserted into an anus. But with pegging, the penetrator is usually a woman, or person with a vagina. Hence the need for a pegging dildo. The act of pegging reverses the stereotypical role of a man penetrating a woman.
Can only women use pegging toys?
No, individuals of any gender can use pegging toys. Whilst the term “pegging” traditionally refers to a woman using a strap-on to penetrate a man, this sexual activity can be carried out by people of all genders and identities.
Does enjoying pegging make me gay?
Enjoying the act of pegging does not mean you are gay. Pegging toys are simply a way to stimulate the male prostate and enjoy more intense orgasms. The prostate (or P-spot) is located just inside the anus and, as such, is easily reached through the use of a pegging toy. Individuals of all sexual identities can enjoy the pleasure derived from stimulating this hidden sweet spot.
Which position is best for using pegging toys?
The best pegging position depends on your level of experience. If you are new to this type of anal play then inserting the toy from behind will be easiest. Doggie style can work particularly really well. If you are looking for a more intimate position, ask your partner to lie on their back. Bring their knees to their chest to make the anus more accessible. You can then insert the pegging toy slowly.
How can I ensure safety and comfort during pegging?
Safety and comfort whilst using pegging toys is crucial. Communicate openly with your partner about boundaries, use plenty of high-quality lubricant to reduce friction and discomfort, and start slowly to allow the receiving partner to relax and adjust. It’s also important to establish a safe word for clear communication and to prioritize aftercare to ensure both partners feel emotionally supported and connected after the experience.
What does a pegging kit contain?
Pegging kits usually contain the following items:
- Harness – Typically adjustable for comfort and control.
- Dildo – Kits will contain a minimum of one compatible dildo but some kits may have a selection for variety.
- O-Rings– To accommodate different dildos from the kit or from your own collection.
Positions for Enjoying Pegging Toys
Doggie Style


A favourite for pegging, this position sees the receiver on all fours with the penetrator comes at them from behind.
This sex position is a great one for pegging newbies and beginners as it is easy to maintain, maximising enjoyment. It also ensures both partners are in full control of play.
The bed and the floor are all good places to start. But if you feel like a little more adventure why not try the receiver bending over the dining table and the penetrator standing. Alternatively, take the excitement into the living room and have the receiver being bend over the back of the sofa.
Using a pegging toy from behind enables the penetrator to simultaneously enjoy their own penetrative pleasure. Try elevating play further with a vibrating butt plug.
Cowboy Style


For couples that enjoy a greater depth of intimacy, this could be just the position.
The penetrator sits for this one. This could be on a chair, on the sofa, on the edge of the bed or leaning against the headboard. Or you may have ideas of your own. The receiver then climbs aboard to insert and ride the pegging toy.
This sexual position enables eye contact throughout and enables the receiving partner to take play at their own pace.
In addition to intimacy this position has many other benefits including:
- The receiver can simultaneously masturbate.
- The position is not strenuous meaning it can be maintained for longer and with more comfort.
Standing


This position is best suited to those with some existing pegging experience, especially if using a strapless pegging toy. It also helps if both partners are a similar height although a pair of heels can easily resolve any shortfall.
Both partners stand. The receiver turns to face the wall and the penetrator stands behind them ready to insert the pegging toy.
The great thing about this particular sexual position is it can be used literally anywhere! Challenge yourselves to try every wall in your house.
Heighten sexual tension and create a greater sense of taboo by adding a spreader bar to the receiver or a soft blindfold.
Again, with this pegging position, the giver is able to enjoy a butt plug or anal beads at the same time.
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