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Pegging Toys

Pegging toys are just the ticket for those adventurous couples looking to explore pegging. Traditionally, the term pegging means the act of a woman penetrating a man anally using a strap-on dildo. Nowadays, it's more commonly used to refer to anal sex using a strap-on. This can be between lovers of any gender, identity or sexuality because absolutely anybody can enjoy this kind of anal play.
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What is Pegging?

The term pegging was coined by the well-known American sex columnist, Dan Savage back in the early 2000s. He used it to refer to the activity where a woman uses a strap on dildo to penetrate a man anally. As seen in the TV Show Broad City (the episode where Abbi becomes the ultimate pegging legend). Films such as Deadpool have also helped to make this kind of anal sex more mainstream.

Nowadays we use the term pegging, to describe anal sex using a strap on dildo. But it is no longer the exclusive property of heterosexual couples. People of all gender, identity and sexuality are embracing this adventurous anal act with literally thousands of us investing in pegging kits and pegging toys.

Is Pegging Only for Heterosexual Couples?

Pegging is not exclusive to heterosexual couples. People of all sexual orientations and genders can enjoy pegging. It’s about mutual consent and exploring pleasure, regardless of the genders or sexual orientations involved.

What Sex Toys Are Used for Pegging?

Popular adult toys used for pegging include:

  • Strap-on dildos (also known as pegging dildos)
  • Harnesses
  • Strap-on kits (also known as pegging kits)
  • Strapless strap-ons

Pegging dildos are specifically designed to be held in a harness via an O-Ring. Most suction cup dildos can be classed as strap-on dildos because they too fit into the O-Rings of harnesses.

Harnesses allow you to swap and change the dildo you choose to play with. Meaning you can enjoy more variation in your play.

Pegging kits make life nice and simple. When you purchase a kit you know the dildo will fit the harness. And the harness will be fully adjustable to fit the wearer.

Strapless strap-ons can only be worn by women or people with a vagina. Held in place via a vaginal plug, the dildo attached is then used to penetrate their partner.

How to Peg Your Partner

  1. Know Your Toy – The best way to get used to a new toy is to use it. So whilst this may seem weird…. Try wearing it around the house whilst you do some chores. This is going to help you to get comfortable with it. Get used to how it moves and how it feels. You can’t expect to be amazing the first time you use it, but you will more confident if you’ve practiced first.
  2. Warm Up – Don’t dive straight in. Take time to get in the mood. Plenty of foreplay helps the body to relax and become aroused. Lots of lube and fingering can be an exciting start. Anal beads or a small butt plug also provide a great bootie warm up.
  3. Lube Up – The anus does do not self-lubricate. Meaning lube is not optional; it’s essential. So grab some high quality anal lube. Then apply it to both the sex toy and your partner.
  4. Take Your Time – In a similar way to dildos, going in too fast is not the best approach. It could result in an unpleasant, uncomfortable and possibly painful experienced. going to be at best uncomfortable and at worst painful. Neither of which is sexy. Nothing says you need to insert the full length of the pegging dildo. Talk to your partner and find out what feels good to them. Talking throughout play will ensure you both have a sexy time.
  5. Have Fun – This is possible the most important bit! There is no denying the first time you see your partner wearing a strap on is going to raise eyebrows and giggles. And so it should. This doesn’t need to be serious to begin with. Enjoy the moment together.

How Can Couples Explore Pegging Safely?

  • Communication: Communication is key. Talking to each other will ensure there are clear expectations and also boundaries. Remember to explain to each other what you want from the experience. Respect the thoughts of your partner. Don’t ask them to do something they don’t want to. Done right, pegging can build trust and bring couples closer together. During play remember to check in with each other.
  • Safe Words: Establish a safe word before you begin. When picking a safe word, choose a word that can’t be mistaken as something else. Fruits make great safe words. Simply saying NO is not going to work. NO can be mistaken as role play and for this reason should be avoided. Safe words provide reassurance that participation is optional, consenting and a safe word provides each of you with the power to disengage at any point.
  • Aftercare: Aftercare means making sure your partner is ok once play has finished. Aftercare can help to avoid any negative feelings post-play. Pegging can be intense and role play can be involved so remember to reassure your partner of your love and respect for them.

Frequently Asked Questions

Pegging is different to other anal sex because it involves penetration using a dildo; not a penis. Traditional anal sex happens when a penis is inserted into an anus. But with pegging, the penetrator is usually a woman, or person with a vagina. Hence the need for a pegging dildo. The act of pegging reverses the stereotypical role of a man penetrating a woman anally.

No, it isn’t only women that can peg. The original term “pegging” does refer to a woman using a strap-on dildo to penetrate a man’s anus. But now this term is more commonly used for the act of penetrating an anus using a strap-on sex toy. This sexual activity can be carried out by people of all genders and identities.

Enjoying pegging, or being pegged, does not make you gay. The male P-Spot is located just inside the anus and it can only be reached by a penis or a sex toy. P-Spot orgasms are far more intense and powerful than a regular orgasm. So, it makes sense that anyone with a penis and P-Spot is going to want to hit this sweet spot for enhanced pleasure and mind blowing orgasms.  

The best positions for pegging depends on your level of experience. If you are new to this type of anal play then entering from the back will be easiest. Doggie style can work really well. If you are looking for a more intimate position ask him to lie on his back. Bring the knees to the chest and this in turn will make the anus more accessible. You can then play face to face.

Safety and comfort during pegging are crucial. Communicate openly with your partner about boundaries, use plenty of high-quality lubricant to reduce friction and discomfort, and start slowly to allow the receiving partner to relax and adjust. It’s also important to establish a safe word for clear communication and to prioritize aftercare to ensure both partners feel emotionally supported and connected after the experience.

Sexual Positions for Pegging

Doggie Style

A favourite for pegging, this position sees the receiver on all fours with the penetrator comes at them from behind.

This sexual position is a great one for pegging newbies and beginners as it is easy to maintain maximising enjoyment. It also ensures both partners are in full control of play.

The bed and the floor are all good places to start. But if you feel like a little more adventure why not try the receiver on the dining table and the penetrator standing. Or both of you standing and the receiver being bent over the back of the sofa?

Pegging from behind enables the penetrator to simultaneously enjoy their own penetrative pleasure. Try elevating play with a butt plug or vibrating butt plugs.

Cowboys & Cowgirls

For couples that enjoy a greater depth of intimacy, this could be just the position.

The penetrator sits for this one. This could be on a chair, on the sofa, on the edge of the bed or leaning against the headboard. Or you may have ideas of your own. The receiver then climbs aboard to ride the strap-on.

This sexual position enables eye contact throughout and enables the receiving partner to take play at their own pace.

In addition to intimacy this position has many other benefits including:

  • The receiver can simultaneously masturbate.
  • The position is not strenuous meaning it can be maintained for longer and with more comfort.

Standing

This position is possibly better for those with some pegging experience especially if using a strapless pegging strap-on. It also helps if both partners are a similar height although a pair of heels can easily resolve any shortfall.

Both partners stand. The receiver turns to face the wall and the penetrator stands behind them ready to peg.

The great thing about this particular sexual position is it can be used literally anywhere! Challenge yourselves to try every wall in your house.

Heighten sexual tension and create a greater sense of taboo by adding a spreader bar to the receiver or a soft blindfold.

Again with this pegging position, the giver is able to enjoy a butt plug or anal beads at the same time.

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