Remote Control Vibrators

What Is a Remote Control Vibrator?

Imagine any vibrating sex toy, add a remote control and hey presto… you have a remote control vibrator!

Remote control vibrator is the name given to describe any vibrating sex toy that can be operated using a remote control. Remote controlled sex toys work the same way as normal vibrators and vibrating sex toys. But what make these toys stand out from the crowd is their remote. Being remote controlled, opens the door to some seriously sexy opportunities.

What Does a Remote Control Vibrator Do?

The primary attraction for remote controlled sex toys is the fact that they make excellent couples toys. Putting your pleasure in another person’s hands can be extremely arousing. As the person in control, you decide your lover’s fate. Both parties experience heightened anticipation. What is coming next? How will the react? This state of unknowing makes for intense play.

In addition to this, remote controlled vibrators offer:

• A choice of vibration patterns and speeds
• Stimulation for the most intimate of body parts
• The ability to operate the toy easily without interrupting play
• The chance to hand power of your pleasure to a partner
• Discreet pleasure in public places
• Some remote control vibrators enable long distance pay via an app so couples don’t need to be in the same house or even the same country

Different Types of Remote Control Vibrators

There are a choice of different remote control vibrators including:

• Wired Remote Control
• Wireless Remote Control
• App Controlled Sex Toys

When it comes to wireless and app controlled toys there will be a variation in the range that these toys have. Some sex toys may only be operable in the same room, others may be a few meters and some may be more.

Wired remote controlled sex toys will have the most limited range. Followed by a wireless remote control. With an app controlled sex toy having the largest range capability.

Most app controlled toys have a range that can used from across the world. Connecting you and your lover through an app means you can be in a different room, a different house or even a different country. App controlled sex toys are perfect for those people in long distance relationships. Or those that spend time away from home due to work or study commitments.

How to Choose a Remote Controlled Sex Toy

Choosing any sex toy will always come down to individual preferences and needs. The best remote-controlled vibrator for one person, may not be the best choice for another. Here are some factors to think about when making choosing the best toy for you:

Type of stimulation – Think about how you wish to be stimulated. Are you looking for clitoral, anal, vaginal?

Remote control range – Consider how far away from the toy you or your partner will be. Wired remotes will only work as far as the wire attached to the toy allows. But an app controlled vibrator are effectively long distance vibrators that will work from any room or anywhere in the world, providing you are both connected to Wi-Fi.

Waterproof – Does the toy need to be waterproof? Will it be used in the shower, the bath or the hot tub?

Power source – Are you looking for battery powered, rechargeable or plug in?

Vibration modes – Think about the variety of speeds and setting you want. Some toys have a greater choice of play options but these toys can be more expensive. Some app controlled vibrators will even allow you to create your own vibration patterns and connect to your music too.

Noise level – Does the toy need to be extra quiet and discreet? Maybe you plan to use the toy whilst on a hot date night or out in public? If so check out our range of extra quiet vibrators. 

Budget – Setting a budget is a super easy way to sort those toys that are affordable. At passionbugs you can easily set the budget using the price filter on the left hand side of any sex toy page.

How to Use a Remote Control Vibrator

Whilst every toy will have it’s own particular instructions the following simple steps will usually apply:

1. Power up – For battery-powered toys, make sure they have good-quality batteries for the best experience. If the toy is rechargeable, ensure it is fully charged before use. Nobody wants to be mid play for the power to fail.
2. Read up – All toys come with instructions. So take a moment to familiarise yourself with how to operate the sex toy before you play. Nothing kills the mood more than having to stop play to figure out the controls or find the desired setting.
3. Warm up – Our bodies and our minds take time to get turned on. So warm up. A little erotic reading, ethical porn, music, candle light can all help to set the mood. Going in cold could result in disappointment.
4. Lube up – Adding a little water-based lube makes all sex toys more fun. Lube helps us to orgasm more easily so why wouldn’t you throw it in?!

How to Use a Remote Control Vibrator with a Partner

There are endless erotic options to explore with remote control vibrators. What you do with them is only limited by your own imagination. But if you are looking for somewhere to start let passionbugs give you a few pointers:

First things first. Who is the giver and who is the receiver? Once this is decided then lock the doors, turn off your phones and settle in for a night of fun! Why not try the following:

Experiment with different speeds and settings.

Start slowly before taking them up through the different gears to reach one explosive happy ending.

Edging;  take your partner the point of almost climaxing, before stopping the vibrations and the stimulation before starting again. When orgasm is finally reached, it will be stronger and longer lasting.

Light bondage play – Using a blindfold increase the level of anticipation by the receiver wearing a blindfold. Alternatively tie the receive to the bed or restrain their hands with a pair of handcuffs or silk ties. Combine the two if you want to make the experience super intense.

Using a Remote Control Vibrator for Solo Play

Remote control vibrators make great sex toys for masturbation. If the chosen vibrator can be used or worn hands free then a remote removes the need for manual stimulation. For example, insert a vibrating love egg set the remote for the desired setting and lie back. The same goes for a vibrating suction cup dildo. Attach to the floor, headboard or shower, select the setting and ride to your hearts content hands free.

Being hands free enables the user to double up on the stimulation as hands are free to roam elsewhere…

Public Play

Take the pleasure outside of the house. Go to the cinema, go for a meal or go for a romantic walk wearing your sex toy. Hand the remote control to your partner and see how far you get before giving the game away. Keen to learn more? Check out the latest blog “The Public Vibrator Challenge”.

Frequently Asked Questions